When men begin learning how to attract women, one of the first things they must do is identify women who they can approach. As men, even if we are passively attracting women into our orbit, all but the highest ranking of alpha males must still actively approach women to find new talent for his roster. This begs the question of how to best figure out which women to talk to and which ones to ignore. Certain women will behave in certain ways so as to suggest their susceptibility to your influence. Others will appear cold towards you, only to reveal their attraction to the trained eye of the seducer. As an Alpha male, you must identify signs that point toward either attraction or disinterest, and judge whether your target is worth your time based on these clues. Here are some easy to spot signs that you can look for:
Eye contact- This is one of the biggest signals a woman can give you. If she makes eye contact with you frequently, you have good odds. Frequent, longer lasting eye contact is arguably the biggest indicator that a woman is attracted to you. This one also applies inversely. If a woman never makes eye contact with you, if she hastily breaks eye contact to the side (downcast eyes are different than sidecast), or if she notices your gaze on her and never looks in your direction again, your odds are not good.
Her positioning- If she sits next to you when there are plenty of other seats available, that's a great sign. If she sits in the corner facing the wall with her hand over her neck, she wants nothing to do with anyone. Look for women with open, friendly body language. Watch where her feet are pointing; women tend to point their feet towards men they are attracted to. You want uncrossed arms, chins up, relaxed postures. Essentially, if a girl strikes you as seeming open to being talked to, she probably is.
She talks to you first- If a woman approaches you, it is quite frequently because she's interested in you. Women very rarely make an active effort to talk to men they are not interested in sexually. It doesn't matter what the context of the conversation is. If she asks you for a pencil, the time, or any other seemingly trivial thing that she could ask anyone else for, she probably digs you. Now, if a woman asks you for the time, this doesn't mean she wants to jump your bones. Play it cool and you're guaranteed above average odds with her.
Obviously there are more signs that women can give than any one person could ever learn. If you focus on looking for these three big ones, you'll start to notice other little signs that she'll give you simultaneously. She'll stroke her hair, mess with her clothes, fidget around, pick at her fingernails. Many girls might have a specific tell, like a facial tic or verbal idiosyncrasies. After a while, you'll be able to get a feel for whether a girl is into you or not within a couple minutes of talking to her.
When you approach women without first getting a sign from her that she's interested, you have a higher rate of failure. Unfortunately, many women (especially high-value ones) will hide all these signs behind a layer of bitch frigidity. Thus, you must approach even the coldest women with an air of supreme confidence. You must already know she is attracted you before she ever lays eyes on you. If you believe in your heart of hearts that you are an alpha male deserving of all the world has to offer, she will sense it and give you all you desire. Falter, and she will sense this too and bring about your destruction.
-Lip Jaxon
Sunday, August 24, 2014
Saturday, August 23, 2014
Red Flags & White Knights
A common disease among betabitchboys is White Knight Syndrome. A disease of the mind, this syndrome attacks the mental processes of the man. Men worship the feet of the Great Female. Any time she pouts, or threatens to leave, or whines to her friends, or tells you to fetch her this or that thing, these are all tests to determine in her mind whom wears the pants in the relationship. Most girls these days are used to guys obeying her every command and throwing themselves at her feet with apologies on command. When you break that pattern, you are showing that you are different from about 80% of men. This automatically makes you more attractive, even if you piss her off. Emotion she feels while thinking about you translates into more attraction, even if she's angry or jealous or sad. All female emotion is converted into attraction. Don't go out of your way to enrage the Beast, but make sure she feels SOMETHING.
The bros I was with last night did not follow these rules. We were hanging with a ball of estrogen, tears and lust. She had several classic red flags which point towards a crazy bitch. Here are some things she did that you all should watch out for if you want to stay out of her spiderweb.
-Takes 50 selfies over the course of the night. Constantly disengaged on phone.
This shit bugs me. Put your damn phone away and have a conversation. This alone is enough for me to not want anything to do with her. This isn't the hugest red flag, but I'm a stickler for this kind of shit. Call me old fashioned.
-Mood swings.
If goes from smiling to depressed and back within a few minutes, get the fuck out of there. Seriously, you don't want to fuck with girls who don't have their emotional shit in order. It's not worth it.
^Side note on this: Hot girls sometimes have lots of baggage. Hit it once and never talk to her again. Take a picture to show your mates; it'll make you feel better about having to get rid of her.
-Overly possessive/jealous
If she flips her shit over you giving any amount of attention to another woman, that's a sign she doesn't know how to handle the jealousy that all girls feel. Women during their childhood figure out how to keep all their bullshit in check. The ones that haven't learned how to hide their jealous rage tend to be held back my some emotional/mental damage. Naturally, don't flaunt your ogling other women in front of her face, but if she reacts angrily to either you paying attention to another woman or the lack of your attention to her, you will want to tread carefully. Women whose emotions are sparked easily by some perceived insult will be the first ones to explode when they are infected by your charms. Stay away from ticking time bombs. Drop any woman who exhibits signs of being emotionally unstable.
^This bit does not apply to a girlfriend scenario. Be nice to your exclusive partners. You'll want to be somewhat considerate of their feelings, else you risk causing too many waves in her emotional ocean. Never, however, become a sycophant.
-Baits you into her bullshit
Keep an eye out for anything that makes you react emotionally. If she drops something on you like "Everyone hates me", "I'm so ugly/fat/sad", "This is so hard...", that's when you know she's trying to manipulate you. Women might not be aware that this is manipulation, as this is how their social dynamics work. Since women communicate with each other emotionally, what they say typically comes loaded with a shitload of emotional vitriol. Your job is to sift through all her emotions, contrived and genuine, and figure out what the real message is in her words. Usually, the message is something like "Do what I'm trying to get you to do like my other manslaves". Your response must be "No."
The moral of the story here is make sure you're thinking of yourself first. Figure out what you want from the relationship, and then don't get sucked into doing what she wants. Don't commit to taking the responsibility of feeding her ego or dealing with whatever drama she's got going on. Once you are in control of the relationship, you can decide to deal with her emotional crap however you wish to. Until then, it's not your problem.
-Lip Jaxon
The bros I was with last night did not follow these rules. We were hanging with a ball of estrogen, tears and lust. She had several classic red flags which point towards a crazy bitch. Here are some things she did that you all should watch out for if you want to stay out of her spiderweb.
-Takes 50 selfies over the course of the night. Constantly disengaged on phone.
This shit bugs me. Put your damn phone away and have a conversation. This alone is enough for me to not want anything to do with her. This isn't the hugest red flag, but I'm a stickler for this kind of shit. Call me old fashioned.
-Mood swings.
If goes from smiling to depressed and back within a few minutes, get the fuck out of there. Seriously, you don't want to fuck with girls who don't have their emotional shit in order. It's not worth it.
^Side note on this: Hot girls sometimes have lots of baggage. Hit it once and never talk to her again. Take a picture to show your mates; it'll make you feel better about having to get rid of her.
-Overly possessive/jealous
If she flips her shit over you giving any amount of attention to another woman, that's a sign she doesn't know how to handle the jealousy that all girls feel. Women during their childhood figure out how to keep all their bullshit in check. The ones that haven't learned how to hide their jealous rage tend to be held back my some emotional/mental damage. Naturally, don't flaunt your ogling other women in front of her face, but if she reacts angrily to either you paying attention to another woman or the lack of your attention to her, you will want to tread carefully. Women whose emotions are sparked easily by some perceived insult will be the first ones to explode when they are infected by your charms. Stay away from ticking time bombs. Drop any woman who exhibits signs of being emotionally unstable.
^This bit does not apply to a girlfriend scenario. Be nice to your exclusive partners. You'll want to be somewhat considerate of their feelings, else you risk causing too many waves in her emotional ocean. Never, however, become a sycophant.
-Baits you into her bullshit
Keep an eye out for anything that makes you react emotionally. If she drops something on you like "Everyone hates me", "I'm so ugly/fat/sad", "This is so hard...", that's when you know she's trying to manipulate you. Women might not be aware that this is manipulation, as this is how their social dynamics work. Since women communicate with each other emotionally, what they say typically comes loaded with a shitload of emotional vitriol. Your job is to sift through all her emotions, contrived and genuine, and figure out what the real message is in her words. Usually, the message is something like "Do what I'm trying to get you to do like my other manslaves". Your response must be "No."
The moral of the story here is make sure you're thinking of yourself first. Figure out what you want from the relationship, and then don't get sucked into doing what she wants. Don't commit to taking the responsibility of feeding her ego or dealing with whatever drama she's got going on. Once you are in control of the relationship, you can decide to deal with her emotional crap however you wish to. Until then, it's not your problem.
-Lip Jaxon
Thursday, August 21, 2014
Happiness
Every alpha male knows that happy guys get more women. It's common knowledge that people who smile, are friendly, and seem happy tend to be surrounded with happy people who enjoy their presence. If you examine people who are very successful in their relationships, you'll find that many of them project a veritable aura of happiness on all around them. By learning how to project an aura of happiness, you too can surround yourself with a crowd of adoring peers.
Now, this is obviously easier said than done. It's tough to purposefully change any aspect of your mind, and for some happiness can seem impossible. I imagine many of you have never been really truly happy. However, if you make some simple modifications in your life, you can change your attitude for the better.
First, here's why you really need to seem happy. Putting all benefits for your own well-being aside, being happy is attractive. People who smile seem more attractive than people who don't. Being happy makes you friendly and confident, which in turn gains you more friends and interested females. Having more of those people around in turn gives you social proof to attract higher quality females. Essentially, happiness by itself is great for your personal self-worth. By increasing your confidence, improving your attitude, and making you seem at ease, you become vastly more attractive to women.
"OK, happiness is great, blah blah blah. We get it, Lip. Now tell us how to be happy and get infinite pussy!"
Fine, fine. I'll tell you. Here's the secret to happiness... Just kidding. I can't tell you how to magically become happier. I can, though, clue you in to some little tricks you can use to modify your life and create a positive outlook.
1. Practice smiling in the car - This one is awesome for two reasons. First, practicing your smile is important. You want to have a genuine full faced smile full of white teeth. Rehearsing your smile lets you fake a good smile much more easily. Move those cheeks up and make sure you squint a little when you smile to make it seem more natural.
The second reason this is awesome is that smiling, even fake smiling, releases chemicals in your brain that make you feel happy. Smiling makes you happy which makes you smile more. Trick your brain into feeling genuine happiness by fake smiling even when you really don't feel like it. It's hard to get over the awkwardness of it, but after a few minutes you should feel better about it. Try to smile the whole way to work if you can!
2. Set up positivity reminders - Every time you think a happy thought, happiness becomes a little bit easier. Put up a little note somewhere you'll see it often with an encouraging message on it. "Hang in there!" "Keep up the good work, sexy!" "Damn, those jeans look good!". Whatever you want to feel good about, write yourself a note. Every time you see the reminder, take it to heart. Really accept the message. Just one extra positive thought in your head every day can make some significant impact.
3. Surround yourself with happy friends - Don't get sucked into negativity by the people around you. Dump your drama queen girlfriend. Excise the emotional cancer your shithead friends bring into your life. Do not feel sad for removing the people who ask to be removed through their actions. Actively seek out to find new positive influences in your life. Meeting people at the gym or at church tends to be a great way to make some happy connections.
4. Exercise!
Exercise makes you happy and healthy. Seriously, just get out there and take a walk. Find a sport or activity that you really enjoy doing. It's hard when you start, but you'll love it before too long.
There are a ton of ways you can tweak your life for the better. Always be seeking to make positive changes. Your mind is the one thing that is yours that nobody can take from you. No one can invade your mind and make you feel like a piece of shit. You are responsible for your own mentality, so take action! Pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get your new happy life into gear.
-Lip Jaxon
Now, this is obviously easier said than done. It's tough to purposefully change any aspect of your mind, and for some happiness can seem impossible. I imagine many of you have never been really truly happy. However, if you make some simple modifications in your life, you can change your attitude for the better.
First, here's why you really need to seem happy. Putting all benefits for your own well-being aside, being happy is attractive. People who smile seem more attractive than people who don't. Being happy makes you friendly and confident, which in turn gains you more friends and interested females. Having more of those people around in turn gives you social proof to attract higher quality females. Essentially, happiness by itself is great for your personal self-worth. By increasing your confidence, improving your attitude, and making you seem at ease, you become vastly more attractive to women.
"OK, happiness is great, blah blah blah. We get it, Lip. Now tell us how to be happy and get infinite pussy!"
Fine, fine. I'll tell you. Here's the secret to happiness... Just kidding. I can't tell you how to magically become happier. I can, though, clue you in to some little tricks you can use to modify your life and create a positive outlook.
1. Practice smiling in the car - This one is awesome for two reasons. First, practicing your smile is important. You want to have a genuine full faced smile full of white teeth. Rehearsing your smile lets you fake a good smile much more easily. Move those cheeks up and make sure you squint a little when you smile to make it seem more natural.
The second reason this is awesome is that smiling, even fake smiling, releases chemicals in your brain that make you feel happy. Smiling makes you happy which makes you smile more. Trick your brain into feeling genuine happiness by fake smiling even when you really don't feel like it. It's hard to get over the awkwardness of it, but after a few minutes you should feel better about it. Try to smile the whole way to work if you can!
2. Set up positivity reminders - Every time you think a happy thought, happiness becomes a little bit easier. Put up a little note somewhere you'll see it often with an encouraging message on it. "Hang in there!" "Keep up the good work, sexy!" "Damn, those jeans look good!". Whatever you want to feel good about, write yourself a note. Every time you see the reminder, take it to heart. Really accept the message. Just one extra positive thought in your head every day can make some significant impact.
3. Surround yourself with happy friends - Don't get sucked into negativity by the people around you. Dump your drama queen girlfriend. Excise the emotional cancer your shithead friends bring into your life. Do not feel sad for removing the people who ask to be removed through their actions. Actively seek out to find new positive influences in your life. Meeting people at the gym or at church tends to be a great way to make some happy connections.
4. Exercise!
Exercise makes you happy and healthy. Seriously, just get out there and take a walk. Find a sport or activity that you really enjoy doing. It's hard when you start, but you'll love it before too long.
There are a ton of ways you can tweak your life for the better. Always be seeking to make positive changes. Your mind is the one thing that is yours that nobody can take from you. No one can invade your mind and make you feel like a piece of shit. You are responsible for your own mentality, so take action! Pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get your new happy life into gear.
-Lip Jaxon
Beginning
Since wordpress is a pain in the ass and hosting costs money, here I am at Blogger. Don't hold my humble beginnings against me, O mighty blogosphere. This entry will be quick & to the point, as I am short on time.
This will be a blog on the male lifestyle. I will provide advice for men to become better men. I will give advice for men who have been indoctrinated their whole lives to believe certain falsehoods about love and social dynamics. I will teach men easy tricks to make positive changes in their lives. This is the topic for a blog which I feel will be most helpful to people, and therefore will be most lucrative. I help you, you give me money. I like that dynamic.
Before, I decided to write about whatever thought happened to pop into my head. I wrote some great intellectual pieces about some heady topics. Unfortunately, while they were fulfilling to write, I don't believe many people are interested in reading that kind of philosophical mind-status literature. This led me to thinking about what I might write about that people would be really interested in, other than recreational fiction. I looked to the world around me, filled with men who have been trained their whole lives by women to be domesticated pussycats, tiptoeing around their wives and girlfriends, praying to be bequeathed the magical gift of sex. It's odd to think of the select few men who have been properly trained in the simplest of Vesuvian arts as "pickup artists". At first, I wanted to help all of my friends become proper Men like myself. I soon found these friends reacted with anger and rejected my teachings. People don't like to be awoken from their sweet unrealities. I will instead teach you, my apt pupil, my reader of words. You will absorb my teachings greedily, lap up my sweet milk of knowledge. My writings will slowly transform your mind into the state it must be in to achieve the results you wish for. I will fill you with the correct behaviors, and I will logically break down the reasons for them.
I plan to decode the female-male dynamic. The ephemeral feminine mystique is no more. We will achieve higher levels of self awareness, and thereby we will look upon the feminine world demystified, empowered by a new perfected worldview.
-Lip Jaxon
This will be a blog on the male lifestyle. I will provide advice for men to become better men. I will give advice for men who have been indoctrinated their whole lives to believe certain falsehoods about love and social dynamics. I will teach men easy tricks to make positive changes in their lives. This is the topic for a blog which I feel will be most helpful to people, and therefore will be most lucrative. I help you, you give me money. I like that dynamic.
Before, I decided to write about whatever thought happened to pop into my head. I wrote some great intellectual pieces about some heady topics. Unfortunately, while they were fulfilling to write, I don't believe many people are interested in reading that kind of philosophical mind-status literature. This led me to thinking about what I might write about that people would be really interested in, other than recreational fiction. I looked to the world around me, filled with men who have been trained their whole lives by women to be domesticated pussycats, tiptoeing around their wives and girlfriends, praying to be bequeathed the magical gift of sex. It's odd to think of the select few men who have been properly trained in the simplest of Vesuvian arts as "pickup artists". At first, I wanted to help all of my friends become proper Men like myself. I soon found these friends reacted with anger and rejected my teachings. People don't like to be awoken from their sweet unrealities. I will instead teach you, my apt pupil, my reader of words. You will absorb my teachings greedily, lap up my sweet milk of knowledge. My writings will slowly transform your mind into the state it must be in to achieve the results you wish for. I will fill you with the correct behaviors, and I will logically break down the reasons for them.
I plan to decode the female-male dynamic. The ephemeral feminine mystique is no more. We will achieve higher levels of self awareness, and thereby we will look upon the feminine world demystified, empowered by a new perfected worldview.
-Lip Jaxon
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