When men begin learning how to attract women, one of the first things they must do is identify women who they can approach. As men, even if we are passively attracting women into our orbit, all but the highest ranking of alpha males must still actively approach women to find new talent for his roster. This begs the question of how to best figure out which women to talk to and which ones to ignore. Certain women will behave in certain ways so as to suggest their susceptibility to your influence. Others will appear cold towards you, only to reveal their attraction to the trained eye of the seducer. As an Alpha male, you must identify signs that point toward either attraction or disinterest, and judge whether your target is worth your time based on these clues. Here are some easy to spot signs that you can look for:
Eye contact- This is one of the biggest signals a woman can give you. If she makes eye contact with you frequently, you have good odds. Frequent, longer lasting eye contact is arguably the biggest indicator that a woman is attracted to you. This one also applies inversely. If a woman never makes eye contact with you, if she hastily breaks eye contact to the side (downcast eyes are different than sidecast), or if she notices your gaze on her and never looks in your direction again, your odds are not good.
Her positioning- If she sits next to you when there are plenty of other seats available, that's a great sign. If she sits in the corner facing the wall with her hand over her neck, she wants nothing to do with anyone. Look for women with open, friendly body language. Watch where her feet are pointing; women tend to point their feet towards men they are attracted to. You want uncrossed arms, chins up, relaxed postures. Essentially, if a girl strikes you as seeming open to being talked to, she probably is.
She talks to you first- If a woman approaches you, it is quite frequently because she's interested in you. Women very rarely make an active effort to talk to men they are not interested in sexually. It doesn't matter what the context of the conversation is. If she asks you for a pencil, the time, or any other seemingly trivial thing that she could ask anyone else for, she probably digs you. Now, if a woman asks you for the time, this doesn't mean she wants to jump your bones. Play it cool and you're guaranteed above average odds with her.
Obviously there are more signs that women can give than any one person could ever learn. If you focus on looking for these three big ones, you'll start to notice other little signs that she'll give you simultaneously. She'll stroke her hair, mess with her clothes, fidget around, pick at her fingernails. Many girls might have a specific tell, like a facial tic or verbal idiosyncrasies. After a while, you'll be able to get a feel for whether a girl is into you or not within a couple minutes of talking to her.
When you approach women without first getting a sign from her that she's interested, you have a higher rate of failure. Unfortunately, many women (especially high-value ones) will hide all these signs behind a layer of bitch frigidity. Thus, you must approach even the coldest women with an air of supreme confidence. You must already know she is attracted you before she ever lays eyes on you. If you believe in your heart of hearts that you are an alpha male deserving of all the world has to offer, she will sense it and give you all you desire. Falter, and she will sense this too and bring about your destruction.
-Lip Jaxon
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